Updated: Aug 10, 2020
August 10th, 2018
The happiest day of may life – so far.
George and I were recently featured on How They Asked instagram and website for our engagement story. Be sure to check out their page and scroll through all the beautiful stories! Below is the exact context in the featured story, xoxo.
How we met – 2012
It was Fall semester of our Freshman year at the University of Iowa. George was on the football team and I was on the Women’s basketball team. We both lived in the dorm called Hillcrest, where most athletes on campus lived. We had a good core group of friends who seemed to always have class or study hall together. Through mutual friends I knew who George was but at this point in time he was strictly labeled in the “friend zone” category. George still remembers the first time he saw me walking from the dorm to my moped. (you can catch that humorous conversation in our proposal video on our Youtube channel.) The first time we talked was in that same moped parking lot, he jokingly said to me “nice helmet.” It was a bright pink motorcycle helmet. So stylish. I replied “thanks! We have to wear them for basketball,” then I drove off. From that day forward he made it a point to work himself out of that “friend zone,” after about 6 months I gave into his charm. Somehow during this chase he would always end up in the exact same room, class, or study hall as me at the exact same time. I’ll never understand how he managed to do that for an entire year but I’m thankful he did! The rest is history and 6 years later we’re engaged, living in California, he’s in the NFL, we have a puppy and were planning a wedding! Life is pretty dang good.
Proposal story August 10th 2018
George and I were just starting our second NFL season together in San Jose. One night he came home and said that we had been asked to shoot an interview for a media piece on “Couples in the NFL.” His 49er media staff would be shooting all of the footage and following us around for candid moments. I’m always game for a photo shoot, so I thought it was an awesome idea! Plus, his family was in Cali for one of his pre-season games, so I thought perhaps they could get in on some photos too.
Our plans changed a bit when George hurt his knee in the game the night before our scheduled shoot. That meant he had to stick around the facility for extra rehab and treatment the next day, so I thought we would just push the whole thing back to a later date. He was texting me from the facility and frantically trying to make a new plan, that is when I started to get a bit suspicious of the “photo shoot”. He was trying so hard to make it work as normally scheduled, and all I kept saying was “babe it’s okay we don’t have to do it, we can wait until next week or when you’re feeling better”. But, he insisted that we go to Twin Lakes State Beach in Santa Cruz for the photos and then we’d knock the interview portion out later. When I got off the call with him, his mom, Jan, could tell I was a little suspicious of something. As I was getting ready, she came into the room and said “Claire, I know you might be thinking that he’s going to propose, but I know for a fact that he isn’t because the ring isn’t ready yet.” When she told me this I was instantly sad and a little disappointed. I thought this would be the most opportune time for him to do it. Once I got over the initial let down, I just dropped the idea all together. After all, Jan isn’t one to play a joke about something like that, so I thought there’s no way he’s doing it. Keep in mind the reason for my anticipation was that, 6 months earlier, George told me he was planning on proposing before his season started. At this point’ it was already August and pre-season had begun, so now each time we dressed up and went somewhere I thought ‘okay, this is it’!
When we arrived at the beach there was an entourage of photographers, video cameras, a drone and a lighting crew all from the 49ers media staff. They started by taking a few shots of us standing and holding a football. I remember saying to George, “let’s play catch!” his response was “I don’t want to play catch.” I was taken aback because he’s always so fun and playful. He also kept trying to stand behind me and keep his hands in his pockets. But, never for a minute did I think it was because he was about to propose. I just thought he didn’t really know what to do in front of all the cameras.
We messed around for about 15 minutes and then the photographer asked me to face the ocean because the breeze was hitting my hair just right – I fell for it.
Everyone was talking to me and getting me into the correct position. George’s mom and sister kept yelling at me, which made me laugh and ultimately distracted me from the time it was taking George to get down on one knee behind me. The photographer finally said “now I want you to turn around and face George.” So, I turn around and there he is…
Down on one knee and looking as handsome as ever! I had the biggest smile on my face and I literally couldn’t believe what was happening!
Then, he said “Claire bear, I think it’s been long enough, will you marry me?”
It was such a George thing to say, and it was absolutely perfect! I was so giddy that I couldn’t even speak. I did eventually manage to say YES!
I think the whole photo shoot captured our unique personalities and depicted our relationship accurately. He absolutely knocked it out of the park and went above and beyond any expectations I ever had.